DO INDIANS HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOUR?
One of the noticeable traits of our nation is our immense ability to laugh—at others that is. Just watch a typical Bollywood movie or one of the several soap operas in view these days. There is laughter and fun but this is largely restricted to poking fun at ‘ people like them’—the Madrasis, Sardarjis, Parsis, Marwaris, and more recently people from Nepal. These are ‘people like them’ not ‘ people like us’, not like those who dominate the Bollywood or TV worlds. If the scriptwriter decides that he will do something different he can always fall back on the traditional butt of jokes—the unfortunate guy who stammers, the hunchback, the mentally ill and of course the drunk.
The recently released film ‘Om Shanti Om’ has brought this topic to centre stage. This film pokes fun at many film people but Manoj Kumar ,yesteryear star, has been so hurt by the way he has been portrayed that he has threatened legal action .The film’s hero Shah Rukh Khan has apologized to the veteran ..But the issue refuses to die down. There is now a serious debate on the subject of whether Indians have a sense of humor.
The crux of the issue is –AT WHAT POINT DOES HUMOR TURN INTO INSULT?
Manoj Kumar felt insulted at the way he has been caricatured. In the past too people from South India[at least those who saw Hindi films] felt insulted at the way they have been presented in Bollywood movies. The film ‘Padosan’ for example poked fun at them. ‘ Om Shanti Om’ itself does the same. Comedian Mehmood made a career out of imitating what he felt was the ‘funny’ way South Indians spoke Hindi. Bollywood routinely portrays south Indians as jackasses or villains. Have you ever seen any Hindi movie showing a south Indian as a normal guy? If a character is a smart guy, a ‘ first class first’ or is the guy who wins the heart of the beautiful girl then he cannot be a south Indian .He has to be a Punjabi Hindu or a Kayastha from U.P.
A Ph. D thesis by an IAS officer from Jammu and Kashmir reveals that Tamilians are the most negatively portrayed community in Hindi movies. The study names the Punjabi Hindu and the Kayastha communities as the least ridiculed groups .It is not a matter of coincidence that these two communities are the dominant ones in Bollywood ---Amitabh, The many Kapoors, Khannas, the Johars, the Chopras etc.
The communities that feel insulted are not always in a position to make their protests heard .Hence the film goes unchallenged unlike in the case of Manoj Kumar whose loud rage has been heard by the makers of the film and by the hero himself. But does anyone care of south Indians in general or Tamilians in particular feeling outraged at their portrayal in any film?
It is easy to say that one most not take such jokes personally, that one ought to have a sense of humor. The interesting thing about such statements is that they are usually made by people who will be outraged if their own community is poked fun at.
I recall that in the 1960’s the film ‘Party’ by Peter Sellers raised much consternation in our country when it was released in India .This film made fun of Indians as a bumbling race uncomfortable in situations calling for finesse.
50 years later we are still are a touchy people. Just imagine this scenario. An Indian humourist publishes a book poking fun at any top Indian politician—say the Prime Minister. Let say the author refers the PM as the most powerful idiot in the country.—there can actually be a few candidates for this honor in the history of the occupants of that august office.
All hell would break lose .The humorist would be dragged to the bar of the Parliament for an official reprimand and would be sacked from his job and no media house would ever dare to employ him. Contrast this with the situation in the US where books abusing George Bush are best sellers—this genre is called ‘Bushism’! In fact Bush himself would consider references to him as an idiot as a compliment if not as a relief from much worse accusations and abuses hurled at him.
Am I exaggerating the Indian sensitivity? Not at all. At this very moment such a scene of extra sensitivity is being played out in Parliament House for a much lesser offence.
This brings me to some critical issues .Why is it that even as we exhort others to have a sense of humor and not to take things personally ,we are upset when we are the object of jokes? I wonder if Shah Rukh Khan and Farah Khan will tolerate jokes about their community.
Are all sections of our country ready or prepared to laugh at themselves? Are Muslims for example ready to accept a jibe at some issues that they are very worked up about routinely ?Will a Christian laugh away a joke about Christ? A recent advertisement for a beer brand in the US that caricatured the ‘Last Supper’ raised the hackles of Christians in the U.S. To be fair Christians in India have shown unusual tolerance for the negative portrayal of their community in Hindi movies. Traditionally Hindi movie ‘ bad girls’ like a bar dancer, or a scheming female villain were named ‘Rosie’ or’ Marie’. A male Christian character frequently named Braganza or Fernandes was almost always drunk silly!
Hindu groups in India and elsewhere are not ready to accept films that seriously discussed some unsavory aspect of their own community.
The point is that we live in tense times. We are not yet a self-confident people. We are yet to arrive a definition of our identity. We are a nation with serious divides . Our identity is closely linked to our caste group rather than as Indians.
In such a situation it is best that humor dos not hurt any community. The difference between humor and insult is thin and subjective. In such a situation the cardinal rule for scriptwriters and anyone attempting humor should be ‘WHEN IN DOUBT DON’T’.
In any case when are we likely to see situational humor in which a character’s very situation raises a belly laugh? Why cannot our scriptwriters raise laughs in the very issues in our lives that ALL OF US SHARE? WHY CAN’T WE HAVE HUMOUR THAT MAKES ALL OF US LAUGH?
I recall the film ‘JANE BHI DO YARON’ in which there is a scene showing the Mayor of a big Indian city returning to India after a ‘study tour’ of the U.S. At the airport the mayor is asked what important lesson he had imbibed during his visit to the that country.
The mayor replies with a straight face ‘In the U.S the water pipes are totally different from the drain pipes’. This is humor in which all of us can laugh [ at the cost of our health!] irrespective of our caste or creed .
No discussion about humor in India can be complete without that genre called ‘Sardarji jokes’. Sikhs are perhaps the only Indian community that can laugh at itself. Most other communities can laugh at only at other communities. In recent months the Sikh community has started showing their irritation at jokes at their expense. Their contention is that such jokes have created a negative stereotype about their community. This is a very critical issue that highlights the need to avoid community based humor . Our audiences are not always able to treat jokes as mere jokes that do not depict the reality. Many people are convinced—after listening to such jokes—that sardarjis are a silly people. Stereotyping of communities is a major obstacle to mutual understanding. There is too much hatred, too many communal divides in India. Jokes merely strengthen the negative stereotypes. From childhood if one is fed on such jokes ---by watching Hindi moves which for millions is the most important means of entertainment—one cannot be blamed for carrying strong negative feelings about various communities. I have myself been at the receiving end of statements like -----You speak English so well.. You speak Hindi well. You are not dark skinned. Yet you say you are a madrassi!
The paradox is that after taking pot shots at south Indians people from elsewhere ask--Why can’t South Indians learn Hindi in the cause of national integration?
This to my mind is truly comical. This calls for the last laugh.
K.R.RAVI
USA
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My dear ravi,
Sense of humour, comedy, jokes, caricature,parody, situational comedy and repartee are different forms. Only few of us differentiate between them.
If u have the time and inclination pl read my blogs SEX OF HUMOUR and SENSE OF HUMOUR SHARPENER etc.
Ramarao.
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ufff... that was immense.
It reminds me of a story of the Buddha (not the Buddha from Bengal) that I heard a long time ago. When asked why he tolerated insults from a man refusing that also refused to give him alms, Buddha said, "As long as I do not accept the insults, it remained with the giver".
God bless!
Here is an interesting link:
http://www.budsas.org/ebud/budtch/budteach43.htm
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Very well written. I have stopped watching Hindi movies for a long time now. Same insipid sterotyping, stories and lack of taste.
Most of the film makers are not original. A few malayalam movies and Tamil movies are good even though many are made with similar themes.
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When all the sardars I know get together they tell each other the latest sardar jokes. They are one community that genuinely seems to have a good sense of humour. The parsis, gujuratis and marathi people also have good sense of humours and poke fun at their own community stereotypes.
I personally think that it is healthy to laugh at each other and personally was laughing out loud during padosan simply because mehmood was very funny.
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Hello Ravi
You have expressed the views regarding the hindi films which the madrassis are criticised.
The tamil films have always been making jokes on a particular community. The brahmin girls
whether they are married or not wear madissars(9yards sari) and the males have tufts.
Make fun but not insult.
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Hai,ravi k.r
Well written blog and a very good and relevant topic too! You are absolutely on dot.
But when come to Manoj Kumar there is difference.
I support and justify Manoj Kumar's reaction for the followin reasons.
If SRK imitated Rajesh Khanna it could be only about his histrionics and manner of actingl.
similarly with other actors. But when it comes to Manojkumar there is a difference because he was known for his patriotism. His theme in the movies and songs were reflectors of patriotism.
such being the case ,when SRK imitates the diologues of Manoj Kumar it is nothing but insulting the patriotism it self.
so pl aware of the difference and be critical of SRK
Krishna Baalu
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Good post.
In India we have so many diversities that what we don't know enough about we ridicule or caricature... Mostly it's ignorance ... Policemen, politicians and journalists too are routinely lampooned in Hindi movies. I've seen many good movies too without such silly humour.
I agree with you that situational comedy is much better. I prefer it too. But in India everyone "not like us" is kind of stereotyped. Seen it across states ....
I don't know however why you ended the blog the way you did. Somehow detracts from the other points being made :-) though it may be a valid argument if Hindi movies are to be used for national integration and learning the language :-)
Good one
Maria M
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Dear Ravi,
YOu have analysed the subject well.
As regards Tamils being at the receiving end in the name of comedy, I would say, Hindi speaking people are not portrayed in any better way in Tamil movies! All hindi speaking characters in Tamil movies are Greedy money lenders and pawn brokers! They talk in a way that tortures Tamil (in the same way as Tamilians speak Hindi in Hindi movies!). They are invariably shown as heartless.
Tit for tat!
Ram Ram
CVRAJAN
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People who are secure with themselves and do not feel threatened are the ones with a sense of humour. People who are insecure and not sure of themselves are the ones who feel insecure and inferior. We must learn to look within ourselves and learn to appreciate ourselves. Then we will be more accepting of criticism. Criticism is not necessarily ridicule. It could help bring a view of ones behavior and actions that one has never considered. This will help one appreciate and look at things differently if one has the confidence to do so. Because after all good natured criticism always helps improve ourselves. That is our goal isint it? To Improve ourselves. Unfortunately so many of us have such a terrible inferiority complex that any criticism is taken to mean ridicule because we feel that improving ourselves from such a low position is anyway impossible and so not even worth trying
Santosh
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It is true that Bollywood jokes at the cost of Madrassis.We laugh at the cost of other people like Sardarjis.These are not to be encouraged in my opinion.I feel ,like Manoj Kumar we must also protest which are not liked by an individual or a community.How strange it is that we can make fun of our Indian mythological characters but refrain from doing the same about other religions!.This is pseudo secularism.I have observed that Hindu sentiments are badly wounded but no body raises any objection to that.There is clear South- North divide but we do not talk about it openly.I feel that South is very correct to take certain postures like opposition of Hindi etc because of the dominance of North over South.Lalloo is a great joker of our country but see how much popular he is with Congress leaders and CPI(M) leadersI think we have a tradition of worshiping fools.The jokes in our movies cater to the the audience from the lower strata.Who is going to bring the required change or are we to live with these defects of our society?
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